Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Rephrasing the lines

I have been asking classmates for their vote throughout this week.  It's uncomfortable and I think I understand why.  During that instant, I put a burden on the classmate: I'm asking him/her to commit on the spot and make a decision under pressure.  With blocks looming in the not-quite-so-distant future, we don't need anymore stress in our lives.

Additionally, whatever his/her choice, he/she has to calculate how to tactfully deliver the response, taking into consideration both myself and the other classmates that are present. I know that I have a difficult time with moments when I'm forced to be politely dishonest.  It is grating and frustrating when I can't express how I truly feel. I can imagine a classmate feeling the same.

So, here's the revised approach:

My name is SP.  I am running for COM President.  Do you have any questions for me?  Please remember to vote before the end of the week.  Thank you.

I'm running for a position.  I'm here if you need me.  The relationship is centered on you.

Vote for who you wish to win.  That decision should be yours to decide, without distraction. I will no longer tell you to vote for me. I respect your autonomous judgement and your choice.

All I ask is that you do choose.  Exercise your right to vote.  Let the results of this election reflect the desires of the entire College of Osteopathic Medicine, not of a select few.

Sincerely,
SP

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